How much is the relationship?

In what ways is money part of a relationship? And what is their part?

First of all - in employment, of course. You come to the employer and honestly agree. You exchange your time and functionality (the ability to do what the employer needs) for a certain amount of money. Which - above all - provide you the opportunity to realize their needs. Which without money to implement difficult. Well, there to eat or buy something from clothes that, or go to the warm sea, or learn where to go ...

Usually the rights and obligations of the parties are prescribed in the employment contract. Which becomes a “string” for the balloon of your fantasies and expectations. After all, to “just exchange” - Comrade Marx’s “Goods-Money-Goods” scheme, which is remarkable for all times — we will definitely add our own purely human characteristics, emotions, ways of contact. And without it, if at work we spend most of our lives ?!

We want to see, in addition to the functionality in us, - and accept - “humans”. With understanding and sympathy treated our difficulties. Supported in a difficult moment. And with all this - regularly paid salaries and bonuses? At the same time, “African passions” often flare up around salaries and bonuses - especially if their size doesn’t regulate the size of your work, apart from the opinion of your superiors about the quantity and quality of your work. The boss or owner of the enterprise then becomes a figure of even greater influence. After all, it depends on his relationship - partly, of course, but still - the satisfaction of your needs! And to whom in this context does this Big Figure look like? That's right - on mom / dad. From whom you - small - depended in your distant childhood.

Although the "remoteness" of childhood is a dubious value ... First, because his impressions live mainly in our Unconscious. And in the Unconscious there is no time. And secondly, because we “memorize” the ways of perception and reactions to the world around us in our primary reality - in the parental family, and it is they who form the basis of our relations with the world for the rest of their lives ...

This is what I am for? And besides, in the working framework, money, of course, is a regulator of relations, generally accepted and even fixed in the contract, but the “human factor” and here often becomes “more valuable than money”. Feelings of personal sympathy, antipathy, child-parental or brotherly-sisterly transference - read: the perception of working relationships through the prism of "primary reality" - almost always affect the "relationship by functionality". The exchange always takes place “with the addition”. Your expectations, illusions, human characteristics.

And yes - for money, you can buy time. With simple functionality, you can buy a “piece-work” number of products specified in the contract: well, there are stitched blouses or planed boards. But the more complex the functional, the more “blurred” the subject of the labor contract becomes ... Because in the work the “human factor” and human relations become more and more significant. Personal contacts.

Okay, let's talk about this personal relationship now. Between man and woman. Initially, I wanted to write about it - about whether there is selling love - but, as always, I got carried away ...

It is said that prostitution is the oldest profession on earth. Yes, it is understandable. The simplest thing at first glance is to exchange “access to the body” for some amount of food or a piece of skin, or something else valuable for everyday life in a cave. After all, the body is always “at hand”. Yes, and do something especially do not need ... Simple such a thing ... Although it seems to me that here I was lying down. It is unlikely that cavemen had free time on the "joy of the flesh." And even if there was, there it was - in the communal clan - it was decided differently, probably. Who rolled to the side today - I love that.

I am on the history - absolutely troechnitsa. But I remember that in ancient Greece there was already such a craft. Yes, prostitution is a product of commodity-money relations. If there was a natural economy, it was probably called differently ...

So here. Is it possible to consider the act of professional selling love a relationship? For me, it is unlikely ... Here, in my opinion, the less “human factor” is involved, the safer for the party that sells itself. Yes, and for the buyer - too.

Remember in the movie “Pretty Woman” with Julia Roberts: “I don’t kiss my lips”? Since sexual intercourse "discharges" many types of mental and physical arousal and tension, then for money you get an object, such a completely alive, but very little animated device for comfortable and safe "discharge." And the other side receives a certain amount of banknotes for “leasing their body”. As far as I understand this issue, there is also a contract for time, place and ways of working interaction.

Watch the video: How much sex should you have in a happy relationship? (January 2020).

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